After breaking up with a girl and realizing you have just made a bad decision, you should not panic and make even worst decisions by constantly calling and emailing her. You should give her some room to really think about the decision.
People say that you should not do anything because sooner or later the girl will realize that she loves you too and take you back, but this is not always the case. If you keep calling her and emailing her then this will show that you are a very desperate man and girls usually don’t like those types of men. So for the next few weeks you need to control your emotions and relax yourself.
If you really want to have her back in your life then you should clear you mind from all the negative thoughts that caused the breakup and remember the things that actually made your relationship work. You should also give your woman as much room as possible because women don’t like to be pushed around by men.
She needs to be given enough time able to think about the relationship so don’t try to force her into decisions she doesn’t want to make and don’t look desperate by calling her repeatedly.
Just keep in mind that these types of situations don’t mend themselves over night as they might take week to months to fix. Think positive, keep your cool, and don’t let your emotions get the best of you.
If you are really serious abut getting your girlfriend back, you need to understand one thing. There is most likely a main cause for the break up to occur. The problem can lie with her or maybe with you. Or it may lie with both of you. Whatever the situation is, you will have to try to resolve it.
Even though what you see as wrong with your partner may be true and is really how you feel, you do not want to point a finger of blame at your partner. Doing that may cause your ex to perceive you as blaming it all on them and will make your ex want to avoid you more. Concentrate only on pointing out what you did wrong. If your ex does not reciprocate with what they may have done wrong, you may have a losing cause. Both sides must be willing to change or any reunion will only be temporary. The old habits will again destroy the relationship, perhaps, for good. What you want to do now is to understand this principle and use it to your advantage.