http://gottatopic.com/relationship-breakup-advice/ Discuss It Tue, 20 Jul 2010 13:53:24 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 http://gottatopic.com/relationship-breakup-advice/comment-page-1/#comment-573 tanay2035 Thu, 21 May 2009 07:03:02 +0000 http://gottatopic.com/?p=685#comment-573 The break up is hard enough to deal with, and it is really difficult to get over it. The break ups are very much unexpected, where one party is just notifies another person that this is all over now, he or she has had enough, and they want out. The first thing to do is to get your self up and stay strong. Don’t throw yourself a pity party, where you are the only one invited. Do not listen to your heart, listen to your head! Embrace the fact that, this person is not coming back, and you do not need the closure. (common excuse people make to stay in touch with their former mates!) Endure your situation, and your state of mind! Keep yourself extremely busy; try to do those things you’ve always wanted to do, or have not been able to do before, because you were not single. Find yourself hobbies that are taking your mind of your break up. Try to leave the house more often, so nothing in there reminds you of the person you dated. Put all the pictures of you and your ex away, so it doesn’t open your fresh wounds, and make you feel said and miserable. Try to spent a lot of time with your family and friends, they are really there for you and have your best interest at heart. When you talked to your family and friends, try not to reminisce about “good all times” you’ve had with your ex mate (this is not the time now my friend!) Make plans with your single friends to go out in the evening to those” meet market” places, so you feel more comfortable to get back in to dating again. The break up is hard enough to deal with, and it is really difficult to get over it. The break ups are very much unexpected, where one party is just notifies another person that this is all over now, he or she has had enough, and they want out.
The first thing to do is to get your self up and stay strong. Don’t throw yourself a pity party, where you are the only one invited. Do not listen to your heart, listen to your head! Embrace the fact that, this person is not coming back, and you do not need the closure. (common excuse people make to stay in touch with their former mates!) Endure your situation, and your state of mind! Keep yourself extremely busy; try to do those things you’ve always wanted to do, or have not been able to do before, because you were not single. Find yourself hobbies that are taking your mind of your break up. Try to leave the house more often, so nothing in there reminds you of the person you dated. Put all the pictures of you and your ex away, so it doesn’t open your fresh wounds, and make you feel said and miserable. Try to spent a lot of time with your family and friends, they are really there for you and have your best interest at heart. When you talked to your family and friends, try not to reminisce about “good all times” you’ve had with your ex mate (this is not the time now my friend!) Make plans with your single friends to go out in the evening to those” meet market” places, so you feel more comfortable to get back in to dating again.

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