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		<title>Second Hand Smoke and Children</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 28 Mar 2010 21:09:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Imagine a little child, less than eight months old with his fragile body pale and weak surrounded by the depressing white walls of a hospital and the child breathing it’s last, it’s an image that is likely to clench your heart and make it bleed but these aren’t just words building up a fictional image [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Imagine a little child, less than eight months old with his fragile body pale and weak surrounded by the depressing white walls of a hospital and the child breathing it’s last, it’s an image that is likely to clench your heart and make it bleed but these aren’t just words building up a fictional image but hard core reality of our world. Every year between 200,000 and 1,000,000 kids with Asthma have their condition aggravated by secondhand smoke.</p>
<p>Bronchitis, pneumonia, middle ear infection and subsequent hearing loss are the names of some of the many problems caused by Secondhand smoke to children and this is just a glimpse into what is an inferno of ghastly diseases caused by secondhand smoke to very innocent children. United States has estimated that some 50 -75% of children have considerable levels of cotinine in their bloodstream. This is the extent to which second hand smoke has invaded the lives of children and effected it in the most painful way possible.</p>
<p>Smoke released by cigarettes, pipes or cigars and smokers, for that matter, is called secondhand smoke which contains 4000 substances, 50 out of which are potent enough to cause cancer in humans and animals. Children need to be protected from secondhand smoke for they have much faster breathing rate; taking in a lot more air than their body weight and if that air is infested with Secondhand smoke, their body absorbs it too and add to it a not so strong immunity system and it all leads you to lungs with much decreased efficiency and increased upper respiratory tract irritation, increased danger of asthma and a reduced oxygen supply to tissues.</p>
<p>The most horrifying aspect of it is that it leaves lifelong impact on a child’s life or may even result in a painful death as recorded by Centers for Disease control, nearly 2300 children die of SIDS and those who do survive their infancy are haunted by painful Asthma attacks and it’s all downhill from there.</p>
<p>Secondhand smoke is like a nightmare for children that needs to be fought with resilience if one wants to protect his child. Every member of the family needs to stop smoking or smoke outdoors which will make the smoke disappear much faster. Similarly, smoking in the car needs to be avoided. It should be made sure that the school to which a child goes is smoke-free and that the child is also kept away from public places where smoking is concentrated. Children need to be protected from secondhand smoke in everyway possible. They deserve a healthy, smoke-free life.﻿</p>


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		<title>Win Her Back</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 May 2009 04:12:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[After breaking up with a girl and realizing you have just made a bad decision, you should not panic and make even worst decisions by constantly calling and emailing her. You should give her some room to really think about the decision.
People say that you should not do anything because sooner or later the girl [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">After breaking up with a girl and realizing you have just made a bad decision, you should not panic and make even worst decisions by constantly calling and emailing her. You should give her some room to really think about the decision.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">People say that you should not do anything because sooner or later the girl will realize that she loves you too and take you back, but this is not always the case. If you keep calling her and emailing her then this will show that you are a very desperate man and girls usually don’t like those types of men. So for the next few weeks you need to control your emotions and relax yourself.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">If you really want to have her back in your life then you should clear you mind from all the negative thoughts that caused the breakup and remember the things that actually made your relationship work. You should also give your woman as much room as possible because women don’t like to be pushed around by men.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">She needs to be given enough time able to think about the relationship so don’t try to force her into decisions she doesn’t want to make and don’t look desperate by calling her repeatedly.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">Just keep in mind that these types of situations don’t mend themselves over night as they might take week to months to fix. Think positive, keep your cool, and don’t let your emotions get the best of you.</p>


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		<title>Life After a Divorce</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 May 2009 04:06:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For many people going through a divorce is an emotionally draining, near traumatic and very hurtful process.  Many lives, not just the ones in the relationship, can be affected.  Huge changes in terms of family, money, friends, housing and most of all, offspring or children, are made.  While the ideal life with the original family [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For many people going through a divorce is an emotionally draining, near traumatic and very hurtful process.  Many lives, not just the ones in the relationship, can be affected.  Huge changes in terms of family, money, friends, housing and most of all, offspring or children, are made.  While the ideal life with the original family may very well be gone this is not the end of the world.  As difficult it is for almost all people after a divorce, a new life can be made and by adhering to the following advice this can be achieved.<br />
Focus on yourself.  While it may seem selfish initially bettering yourself and giving attention to yourself for a change can drastically help your emotions and mood.  Get out there, exercise, treat yourself better, focus on your physical body.  When you really workout with an intense schedule your body can release endorphins after giving it your all after a certain exercise.  This natural high for your body is a great boost for your emotions as a whole.  In time you&#8217;ll look and feel great naturally.</p>
<p>Do not be afraid to admit you are weak at first and reach out to friends.  Your friends will be there when you need them and after a divorce they will most definitely be sympathetic to all of your needs.  So get rid of any pre conceived notions and simply talk to your friends in a very low point in your life. If you need even more assistance you may always consider a counselor to be the extra boost to help with your problems.  After all a new perspective on your problems from an outside set of helping hands can only do more harm than good.</p>
<p>Start a journal to log your progress.  By writing your thoughts, feelings and emotions in such a traumatic time in your life you can release all the anger, frustration, hurt and many more from your body and on to a piece of paper.  This is also beneficial as over time you can look back at earlier entries to remind yourself that you have made tremendous amounts of progress physically and mentally. Visualize your new life and don&#8217;t just think it, do it.  By imagining your new life at first you can have the inspiration to take it to the next step.  It is only in your power to make it happen.  Keep your motivation up in life and start anew.  After all the sun always rises.</p>
<p>A divorce can not only be traumatic for the husband and wife but also the children as well.  After all these are innocent children who are now faced without two loving parents together, the family is now broken.  Instead of a father and mother to look up to all the time the concept of visitation rights and scheduled meetings to see one or the other are introduced.  Only one parent ultimately gets majority custody of the children after a divorce in the courts although joint custody is not entirely out of the question.  However both parents are forever changed regardless of the legal outcome.  How both act will certainly affect their children.  To remain a good parent for your loving children here are some invaluable advice.</p>
<p>It is crucial that the mother and father have no ill will or hostile intent regardless of the situation.  When children are involved they will follow every footstep so to speak that both of their parents now make.  Coupled with their impressionable minds any unfortunate act can surely mold their way of thinking and ultimately shape them as they grow.</p>
<p>As such it is imperative to work together and adhere to the children&#8217;s needs together as a collective unit even after a divorce.  Reach a common middle ground when it comes to activities, plans, schooling, medical issues and many other issues when children are being raised.</p>
<p>All in all it is in the best interest for the parents after a divorce to think of their children first and foremost.  Everything else is secondary.  Leave any and all bias or prejudice at the door and simply love your children should you go through a divorce for they will surely love you in return despite the unfortunate setting.</p>


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		<title>Relationship Breakup Advice</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 May 2009 03:59:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If your relationship to your partner has gone south, there are ways to end it without causing too much pain and suffering. But if your relationship has gotten so bad that you guys are purposing trying to sabotage each other then this type of relationship needs to be ended quickly. These tips are for the [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If your relationship to your partner has gone south, there are ways to end it without causing too much pain and suffering. But if your relationship has gotten so bad that you guys are purposing trying to sabotage each other then this type of relationship needs to be ended quickly. These tips are for the relationships that are on the brink of breaking.</p>
<p>A breakup does not always have to include things breaking, clothes being tosses out, or even physical abuse.  People way over estimate a breakup and believe that it is hard to accomplish so they keep postponing it until it is just too late. You always want to act fast and efficiently the first time you feel that the relationship is not going to work before it gets out of hand.</p>
<p>If a breakup is handled right then the breakup should be a walk in the park. Both partners should be clear and honest about their thoughts about the relationship. And if there needs to be a breakup both partners need to discuss their thoughts with each other with honesty. Try to meetup in person instead of by phone because this will really help raise the seriousness of the situation.</p>
<p>The goal after a breakup is to still remain friends, so try to show some compassion towards your partner. You will need to think hard about this breakup since this might just be a little bump in your relationship. So think up your reasons wisely and don’t make any harsh and rash decisions too quickly.</p>
<p>After breaking up with a partner you should always try to get over your ex. as soon as possible. Everyone goes through heartbreaks sooner or later in their lives, and the faster you get over it the faster you will be able to live your life.</p>
<p>Avoid any contact with your ex. as this will make your partner feel like you really meant the break up. So this means no text, calls, emails, IMs, or any other types of communication. Just remember the reason why you broke up with your partner to relax the urge to call.</p>
<p>After a break up life will be pretty hard for the next 2 to 3 weeks because you will miss your partner. Just keep in mind that this is like a short passage in your life and will end when you forget about that person.</p>
<p>Just because you got dumped doesn’t mean your life is over. After a breakup go out with some friends and enjoy yourself. Enjoy your new found freedom to this world and have a few drinks with some friends. This will help you forget about your partner and make you feel a lot better about yourself.</p>
<p>Do not let your ex. play games with you. Don’t meet up with her at the coffee shop because this will just lead to an odd moment and hurt you in the long run.</p>
<p>Lift up your self esteem by doing something different in your daily routine. You can try some changes like a new haircut, or some fresh new clothes. Also try to get some exercise to trim some of that fat or build some muscle to make you feel good about yourself when you are looking in the mirror at yourself.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">If you cannot bear telling your once former lover that you no longer have any interest and wish to move on to better things in person then a letter will be a good alternative.  There are key steps in writing a breakup letter with class and taste to best end a relationship through this method.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">First and foremost start and finish the letter with nothing but pure compassion for the person that you once had the purest feelings for.  After all this is the last form of communication and literally the last words you will write to this person.  You must make the most of it.  As such pick and choose select words as wisely as possible and never point the finger at anyone.  Being respectful in your compassion is key in writing a tasteful letter.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">If you have a plan in mind simply let it out.  Should you decide to become friends instead of completely writing each other off then at the very least suggest it as a possible consolation prize of sorts.  Being honest with thoughts and feelings is extremely important and this includes why exactly you are breaking up in the first place.</p>
<p style="margin-bottom: 0in;">Last but not least as hard as it may seem you must write that the relationship cannot be repaired and that this is final.  After all this is a breakup letter.  Do so in a, again, respectful manner that will come clear but will not be extremely blunt.</p>


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		<description><![CDATA[In order to catch a cheater you will need to outsmart them. They will always try to get out of a situation by lying to you, so you should never trust them and let the evidence that you find do the talking. Well you might ask “Where would I be able to get this evidence,” [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In order to catch a cheater you will need to outsmart them. They will always try to get out of a situation by lying to you, so you should never trust them and let the evidence that you find do the talking. Well you might ask “Where would I be able to get this evidence,” well now I will go through several different ways you can catch a cheater.</p>
<p>There are probably millions of couples throughout this world that have to face mistrust and betrayal between their relationships. “Why,” might you ask, well there are certain reasons and triggers that will cause a person to cheat on their partners. Here are 7 reasons why people cheat.</p>
<p>Emotional Distress – If a partner is going through some tough times with his/her relationship then the partner will want to release their frustration on something. Sadly, this can lead to an affair with another partner.</p>
<p>Sexual Dissatisfaction – Another reason could be that your partner is sexually dissatisfied with your performance. This will lead to your partner going to someone else for that satisfaction that you are unable to provide.</p>
<p>Inferiority – This will also lead to cheating and affairs if a partner feels that he/she is financially or cosmetically inferior to his/her partner because that person will try to find a new person that can make them feel better about themselves.</p>
<p>Neglect – If a partner is neglected often then this will lead to that partner becoming depressed and saddened. Thus making him go to someone else to feel better, leading to an affair.</p>
<p>Excitement – If a person is bored with his/her partner and doesn’t find that he/she is getting the excitement in his/her life that she craves then he/she will go to someone else for that feeling of excitement.</p>
<p>Jealousy – This can also lead to cheating since the partner sees that another person has a much more full and fulfilled life than he/she has, thus making him/her search for a newer and more providing partner.</p>
<p>If you have some extra money laying around then you might want to hire a private investigator. They are extremely efficient and accurate about the data they provide. But if you can’t afford it then you can look at the other techniques I have listed below.</p>
<p>If you are quite a tech savvy then you can always try using the GPS locator system. All you need to do it install a GPS system in your suspected partner’s vehicle without them knowing. And now you will be able to see where ever they are going in any given time. This technique is very useful, but is a bit hard to use if you aren’t the most tech savvy person out there.</p>
<p>A simpler way for catching a cheat would be to reverse trace the phone calls that he frequently dials to numbers that you do not know. All you need to do is to find a website that can trace calls and then type in his 10 digit number and then you will have the full name and location of that person.</p>
<p>So if your partner is really cheating on you then he or she will never be honest to you about what they are doing at midnight, that is why it is your job to find out where they are going and who they are calling because they can’t lie themselves out of some hard evidence.</p>


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		<title>Make That Great Guy Friend into a Boyfriend</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 May 2009 03:34:05 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[If you&#8217;re a woman then chances are there is that other special somebody in the form of an amazing guy friend you can call late at night after a fight with your boyfriend for support when you need it most apart from your girl friends.  For those women who ever had the thought of converting [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you&#8217;re a woman then chances are there is that other special somebody in the form of an amazing guy friend you can call late at night after a fight with your boyfriend for support when you need it most apart from your girl friends.  For those women who ever had the thought of converting him into a boyfriend then you can follow these steps to do just that.</p>
<p>Why would this be a good idea assuming you are now single?  With a great guy friend you already have knowledge of his likes and dislikes, some bonding and many other attributes to build upon.  If you plan on making the jump in changing a guy friend into a great boyfriend just adhere to these simple pieces of advice.</p>
<p>First of all you absolutely must not treat him as just a normal friend from this day forward.  Not in terms of physical or superficial attraction but by simply being there when it comes to deep, personal issues such as with those pertaining to his family or even academics.  Force this great guy friend that he cannot function without either seeking your advice or by seeing your face.</p>
<p>One crucial exception to the said advice is to never be the support when it comes to his relationship issues with his girlfriend, assuming he is in one.  Being the support in this matter shows this guy friend that you are simply a friend and nothing more.  Only do so right after you discover he is single after being dumped for example.  Be his comfort at that point and make your next move.</p>
<p>What is the next move?  Well, you probably guessed it, flirting!  While it may seem a bit unnatural at first it may make it easier by keeping it subtle.  Whether it&#8217;s changes to yourwardrobe or body, get this great guy friend to notice your outer exterior on top of the interior emotional traits as mentioned previously.  Just do not go overboard or else this will backfire dramatically.</p>


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		<title>How-to Make a Guy Fall in Crazy Love with You</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[There&#8217;s a common misconception that only females in the world are the people who become crazy when it comes to the notion of love.  This is not entirely true as surprisingly guys can become quite serious about the thing we call love and relationships.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There&#8217;s a common misconception that only females in the world are the people who become crazy when it comes to the notion of love.  This is not entirely true as surprisingly guys can become quite serious about the thing we call love and relationships.</p>
<p>The problem is that women have no idea in how to managing a guy fall into this great emotion much in the same way as the female typically does.  However here are a few helpful tips of advice in trying to change just that with a few simple steps.</p>
<p>Emotional bond is everything.  First and foremost you must connect, you must bond and you must feel equal to each other.  This obviously does not apply to, you guessed it, sex or superficial physical attraction.  Therefore it&#8217;s best to start out as simple friends to begin a relationship.  While there&#8217;s a bad attachment with love and just friends, this is simply for establishment purposes only.  This way the man and woman have good footing, can become eventually attached and honesty feels natural.</p>
<p>Another great point of advice is utilizing the concept of admiration.  By admiring each other this shows great respect to one another.  Without a man admiring the woman for her looks, mind, soul and body and vice versa then no further progress can be made to ultimately achieve a loving relationship.  What really makes a man admire a woman is for her to simply show honesty and truth in action.  By simply putting on a mask so to speak of being kind just for the sake of being kind only for him to realize that is not the woman&#8217;s true colors will surely end up in despair.  Thus it&#8217;s best to be open and just show true emotions from the start.</p>
<p>Last but not least is sex.  Yes, this is a part of any relationship but should only play a small role.  It is advised for physical action such as sex to come much later.  Doing so allows more room for ample emotional growth and bonding with each other through personality traits.  By allowing a man to become friends then admire the woman to show respect and finally leading to the sexual component of the relationship will most likely result in falling in love.</p>
<p>Love can be shown in all different forms and as unorthodox as it may initially seem the eye body language is no different.  Your eyes have an innate power trait to reveal even the deepest of emotions including, yes, love!  By using eye body language you can get a much needed extra help at the bar, party or any social gathering when trying to find the one.</p>
<p>Maintaining Eye Contact – This may seem a bit obvious but many people fail at simply staring at someone due to fear.  Get fear out of your system.  If you feel someone that could be it, simplyshow affection and interest by maintaining good eye contact.  It&#8217;s best to also smile to keep this classy and it&#8217;s perfectly fine to glance away from time to time as well.  After a few minutes the other person will catch on by simply through the use of your eyes.</p>
<p>Reducing Eye Contact – Contradictory to the first piece of advice it&#8217;s best to utilize this advice under special circumstances.  If you truly have a feeling the other person may be it for you then it&#8217;s best to not come off as completely desperate from the start.  It&#8217;s best to play a game of sorts by short glances every now and then when sitting or standing at the same position.  If the other person glances when you are glancing away several times then this is a great sign of interest.  Keeping it simple and somewhat cute is a good footing.</p>
<p>Winking – Only the most self confident need apply for this method.  The act of winking is a high risk yet high reward act of eye body language.  If you have an amazing amount of confidence and notice a special person in your sights simply wink and see what happens.</p>
<p>At the end of the day while simply using your eyes may not entirely get you the perfect one that you envision in your mind, it can certainly help and is more creative.  A simple gesture with the eyes can do more than words or regular body language.</p>


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		<title>Biggest Mistake You Can Make When Weight Training</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 09 May 2009 03:08:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You are at the gym ready to go mentally and physically as you begin your weight training.  The protein shake in your left hand ready for you to consume after a high intensity workout with the music player in your right pumping you up.  Unfortunately you may be missing out on the biggest downfall that [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are at the gym ready to go mentally and physically as you begin your weight training.  The protein shake in your left hand ready for you to consume after a high intensity workout with the music player in your right pumping you up.  Unfortunately you may be missing out on the biggest downfall that most men make when starting out in the gym to lift weights, and something which will surely affect your entire body.<br />
When most guys, especially teenagers, begin to develop more muscle mass which areas do they focus on first?  What do all the television shows, magazines and the general media portray as the alpha male figure?  Typically we see a big, muscular man with rock hard abs, great big biceps, equally massive triceps and in some cases even a strong neck.</p>
<p>What exactly is missing in this picture?  If you haven&#8217;t figured it out by now it is the lower half of the human body!  All too often most men simply neglect the other half of their own bodies to go for the ever elusive bigger biceps instead.  While there is nothing truly wrong in this mentality, however, by entirely neglecting the lower body you may end up as horribly disproportionate.</p>
<p>The key is to encompass all of your body at the gym but do so only in groups.  Therefore on Monday you may decide to train your biceps then on Wednesday you may work on your abs and on Friday you should work on the lower body which includes quads, thighs and calves.  Thus you must adopt the thinking mentality of working your entire body and not simply focusing on the biceps or abs just because that&#8217;s what the television told you to do.</p>
<p>If you follow this new way of thinking then you&#8217;ll end up healthier and ultimately much happier knowing that you have a full body as opposed to a disproportionate one with large biceps.</p>


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		<description><![CDATA[Is it ever fun to sit in a gym and walk away on a treadmill? Well now you can have fun while burning away hundreds of calories. You don’t need to pay a monthly bill or stay in a boring room for 1 or 2 hours a day. The secret to engaging your whole body [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is it ever fun to sit in a gym and walk away on a treadmill? Well now you can have fun while burning away hundreds of calories. You don’t need to pay a monthly bill or stay in a boring room for 1 or 2 hours a day. The secret to engaging your whole body in a workout is to play a sport! If you play one of the 5 sports mentioned below then you will be able to burning calories while having fun in no time!</p>
<p>Soccer – All the running, twisting, jumping, and darting really puts quite a workout for your body.  You will be able to burn about 600-800 calories an hour by playing soccer.</p>
<p>Basketball – By playing full-court basketball you will need to run a lot. You will need to be running back and forth from one end to the next and this really helps you lose weight. Basketball also helps strengthen your upper body and lower boy muscles while you are having fun. You can burn around 500-700 calories each hour by playing basketball.</p>
<p>Water Polo – In order to stay afloat you will be forced to continuously churn your legs while the upper body will need to defend and throw the ball. This gives you quite a workout and is extremely fun to play with your friends.  You can build incredible muscles because of the resistance that the water puts up. You can burn around 600-800 calories each hour by playing water polo.</p>
<p>Rugby – With a combination of wrestling and running you will receive an effective body workout. This sport is a great cardiovascular workout for your heart. You can burn around 600-800 calories an hour by playing rugby.</p>
<p>Football – Of course now we have football, this sport is similar to rugby because you will need to be in constant contact with the other players on the field. You will be able to build big muscles along with a stronger heart. You can burn around 500-700 calories an hour by playing football.</p>


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		<title>Lose the Belly Fat and Building Muscle</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[Do you have that unwanted belly fat that keeps you from doing the things that you really like? Are you afraid of going to the beach or a water park? Have you ever wanted that body that the woman on T.V. had?  Well now you can by following some really simple steps. Everyone wants to [...]


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you have that unwanted belly fat that keeps you from doing the things that you really like? Are you afraid of going to the beach or a water park? Have you ever wanted that body that the woman on T.V. had?  Well now you can by following some really simple steps. Everyone wants to be fit and sexy.</p>
<p>All you need to lose weight and to build muscle is to improve your workouts and diets. With the proper amount of commitment you can start looking lean and mean in no time. Well there are some extremely simple ways to lose that belly fat fast and easily. It doesn’t require any expensive gym enrollments or any diet programs, all you need is commitment and time.</p>
<p>One extremely easy exercise to lose that fat is jump roping. Try to perform at least 2 jumps per a revolution of the rope. Remember to have the proper sized rope in proportion to your height and to land on the balls of your feet to prevent any injuries.</p>
<p>After jumping roping for about 2 minutes the key is to perform squat thrusts. This is a very simple exercise and it is performed by standing straight with your hands at your sides. Now, squat down slowly and keep your head facing forward while you bring your hands to touch the floor, keep your ands about half a foot in front of your feet. After your hands are on the floor, slowly push your feet about 3 or 4 feet behind yourself. Now repeat this exercise for about 2 minutes.</p>
<p>So performing these 2 exercises for 10 or 12 minutes back to back will help you lose your extra belly fat. As long as you keep a constant schedule of performing these 2 exercises along with a proper diet, then that belly fat should be gone in no time!</p>
<p>1. In order to start losing weight you will need to have the proper amounts of nutrition in your diet. You must eat lots of green vegetables and fruits in order to keep fit. Also include lots of proteins, fiber, and plenty of energy within your diet.  Never eat any junk food.</p>
<p>2. For building muscles you will need to have a strict workout schedule. You will need to start doing some weight training and strength training and this can easily be done at your local gym. Just look for a good instructor so that he or she can guide you to a nicely sculpted body.</p>
<p>3. Drink plenty of water and stay away from sodas and sugar heavy drinks. You must always stay hydrated during your workout routines.<br />
By following these steps you can easily shed pounds and gain muscles in no time!</p>


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